The Sweet Analogy: Why Men Are Like Chocolate Bars and Good Men Are Like Protein Bars
The Indulgence of men.
The reason as in why men are like chocolate bars and good men like Protain bars.
Why is it that we are always attracted to men who either aren’t interested in us or treat us like shit and why do we ignore the good ones? Whatever man we get, we use as a Distraction and then they use us as Objects.
Fair play or not?
We indulge ourselves in men who have no interest or men that are plain arseholes or let’s call them all Distraction men ( The arsehole and the “ I am not interested guy” ) We like their appearance of attraction and exactly that is our Distraction — Same with chocolate bars — We like indulging our chocolate — oh so damn good and they make us feel happy for that one moment and then when we are in our little one for the moment happy place we just forget everything — as for that one moment everything is perfect just like with the Distraction of men.
We know they are not good for us if we have too much of it yet their Attraction is irresistible and we keep looking at them and tasting the flavour of chocolate, just like we enjoy the indulgence of men and their attention. Their „Love“ makes us feel good and we make them our safe Haven until we realise it’s a Haven with no boats to escape and we freak out and feel trapped and drown in the fantasy of reality that never existet.
We are attracted to them as we are looking for that one moment of happiness,that we get from chocolate too — in which we can forget how we actually feel and validate ourselves from their behaviour and the need to feel loved by anyone even if it’s just for a moment — so we don’t need to feel the love thing for ourselves — through ourselves and choose someone else to do it for us. The employment of self-love that is.
That damn Stupid love thing has 2 big chocolatey Flavours:
- If Trash guys treat us like shit we do not care — we feel like an object but we put ourselves out there and lead them on and be like — “Here I am, take me I need a Distraction — you an Object, so let’s play this game. Then after we lose ( which we always do — Checkmate — we let them win) we feel sick and lost in the habit of Distraction. We have played this Russian roulette chess so many times before. Regardless of how we feel after the game, we like playing this dangerous game — just like, if we ignore the “I should not eat so many chocolate bars” — yet we do and well, guess what — we get sick and feel great about ourselves. The same thing happens with the “I should not lose myself in all these shit men” quotes but we like that kind of Sickness of men and chocolate bars as the danger is irresistible and exciting.
We ignore the quotes of “I shoud not” and stay on that Safe haven with no boats.
2. The “They aren’t interested guys” who tell us they aren’t, yet we ignore that as we know it’s not gonna lead to anywhere anyway, so we want them even more — so much more than the shit guys and then we get hurt even though nothing has happened — but oh we Love that kinda heartache, just like if we eat too much chocolate we get tummy-ache but its kinda worth it. We like going through that particular wonderful Pain.
The good guys are like Protein bars — we don’t give them a chance as we know they are good for us and healthy — That protein is what we need — it helps us focus and we do not feel bad about it after having had to many but who wants a protein bar if you can have a bloody milky way bar.
There is the sugar rush and the healthy kick
You get “Healthy kick” from a Protein bar and the “Sugar rush” one from a chocolate bar
The difference — The Kick makes us feel happy and better in a long run — The Rush makes us feel happy and better in the short run.
We like the bad stuff — it keeps us going — its so much more fun. So we would always ignore the “good run” and go on that “bad run”.
We are totally high of yummy Chocolate bar men and totally low on Portion bar men.
We are drawn to them as we know we not gonna end up with any of them.
_ THE TRASH _ THE HEARTACHE _
as we are too scared to actually be in a relationship with them, so if they do suddenly show interest or are nice or we let the good guy in, we freak out — in a way it is the same with a bar of chocolate — once it is gone — we are sad and grave for more and instead of stopping we keep going until we are sick and with men we do the exact same.
_THE GOOD_
We might like to be good and have a protein bar but then stop because it is to boring. We get confused between chocolate bars and protein bars — so we play this “push away and pull back game” in which we might have a protein bar but throw it away for a stupid chocolate bar instead. But aren’t we suppose to throw away the “Trash” — well we do or should — but we like to get pickt up by the Trash and want more of something we cannot have but want.
It is unhealthy, just like it is unhealthy to run after a guy who treats you like shit or the guys who aren’t interested in you.
At least you can have as many chocolate bars as you wish, as they never disappoint „unless“ you have a bad one — Yet with men „oh we like the bad chocolate bar guys and ignore the good ones, so we keep eating until we find a „good shit one“ that gives us many heartaches and tummyaches.
